It was a pleasure to see The Dance of Love featured in The Chicago Journal, which explored the book’s message as a guide to a more conscious and embodied way of being. The article gracefully explains how the practice of love is truly a dance between two essential forces.

The writer, Andrew Charters, got to the heart of the book’s central theme with this powerful question:
“At the heart of O’Brien’s message lies a profound question: Can unity and polarity coexist? Her answer is both practical and poetic—they not only can, but must.”
The feature discusses how core Aikido principles can be translated “off the mat” to help us work with, rather than against, a partner’s emotional flow. It highlights the book’s teachings on generative relating—creating a space where both people feel seen and heard—and how embracing vulnerability can be an act of mastery, not weakness.
My deepest thanks to The Chicago Journal for capturing the soul of this work.
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