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Practical Spirituality + Empowered Living
As I write to you, I am rested and well and my world is stable. Thankfully, I have always been someone who is up for adventure, and I knew I was incarnating at an interesting time!
I am aware of the mass levels of fear and contraction and I appreciate the grounding, simplifying and humbling effect it is having. That said, now is a very important time to choose how we are creating our lives and what we are aligning with. The choice is here to unsubscribe from fear. We can be “real” without agreeing to a mass circulated panic. Can you discern and find the difference?
Do we want to be “sheeple” or do we celebrate life force and creativity? We can absolutely find unity and community while doing the latter, but it doesn’t look good now if we give in to being victims or feeling powerless.
For over 20 years, I have seen that the world would become more polarized, and so I have placed priority on cultivating my vibration and supporting others in doing the same. This has included intuitive and healing sessions (available by phone and online btw), as well as my extensive studies of holistic health and relationships.
I am not that inclined to politics, though I have heard some interesting theories about why this is all happening. To me, the game is about life force and sovereignty. The only way those are taken from us is if we give them up.
This is good news. This is why I wrote a book about new paradigm love and masculine-feminine harmony.
Our relationships and life force are not incidental or luxuries to pursue once we feel secure. Studies show that happy relationships boost immunity, and Edgar Cayce (a famous psychic at the turn of the 20th century) said that lack of circulation is the root of all disease.
So even as you may be hunkering down, I encourage you to consider…
And some specific, easy ways to boost immunity are:
I am here for you if you’d like to do a phone or online session.
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To your vitality!
Love,
I have dedicated my life to mastering energy, and teaching other people how to do it. It’s super empowering and fun. I can’t tell you how many “ah-ha’s” I’ve witnessed, because the thing about energy is it’s so THERE even when it’s “invisible”. Naming it and working to use it instead of letting it use you brings such huge relief.
I have seen couples bring the spark back after major disconnection, women find their soulmates, babies conceived and born, family issues smooth out after years of tension, women starting their dream businesses, men and women dreaming big and finding successes they never would have achieved when they were bogged down with energy that wasn’t serving them. All this and more can shift through simple guided meditation, visualization and awareness practices.
I feel very inspired to support anyone ready for a breakthrough or going through challenges right now. If you sense there may be an “energy” component to your issue, or if you’ve tried other methods and still feel stuck or yearning for more, I invite you to join the upcoming class, Psychic Self Care for Sensitives and Creatives. We start Monday, 10/22! And let’s go into the holidays etc. feeling clear and bright!
The holidays are upon us and ’tis the season for family “stuff”! And besides the usual messages of gratitude and celebration, I thought I’d share a bit about what I’ve learned about energy and how it moves through families.
One thing I see is that there’s a “family healer” in most families. What is this?
These are not necessarily the people who become doctors or who obviously take care of everybody. In fact, family healers are usually too busy (energetically) to assist in these ways.
These people earn their money. They earn the care they often demand.
They express what the others don’t. They feel the rage or the grief or the longing.
Because if you think about it, healing is not about making things perfect. It’s not always pretty. It’s about returning to wholeness.
For truly, whatever we deny or disown will run the show in our lives. In families, old lies and betrayals and secrets and shame affect generations to come. Almost every family has this “stuff”.
Often, it got buried years ago. It probably started with people we’ve never met. When I work with a client who’s really stuck, I frequently find the cause in unconscious ancestral patterns.
It may also be current. One or more members of the family stuff their feelings or deny their greatness, and another one expresses those feelings or becomes successful in a way the other did not. Then the other one hates their guts. For instance, a child will naturally express his parents’ unexpressed stuff, triggering the parents to no end!
Families, in general, keep improving. And so family healers become what those who came before them wanted to become– if only they were ready, if only the world were ready. This can be both exciting and challenging.
I think this is one reason why grandparents love grandchildren so. They can appreciate their grandchildren’s freedom from limitations without the conflicting emotions they might have with their own children. And because ancestral healing goes deep, it can take generations to unwind.
I’ve had many conversations with my grandfather about this. He passed away in 2005, and while he took care of the family financially, he was very controlling.
I rebelled against this as a kid, and blew through the money as an adult. Looking back, I might have made some different choices.
I spent my 20’s cultivating my spirituality and creativity. I remember talking to my grandfather after I recorded my first CD and was touring coffeeshops around the southwest. I can still hear his reply to this day: “That’s nice, Ann, but are you making money?”
At that time, making enough money to support myself seemed unfathomable. Looking back, I’m so grateful that I had that time for creativity, and I’m not sure that “getting a job” was the right answer– given where I was at at the time. Still, I’ve certainly had some judgement and guilt about it.
Over the last few years, I’ve asked my grandfather for forgiveness several times. And each time, I was surprised by his answer: “I wouldn’t have wanted anything better for you.” I literally see him beaming with pride.
I’ve heard stories of how controlling his mother was. She moved with him from the east coast to LA when he went to college, if that gives you any idea. I’m sure he wanted to get away from that controlling energy, yet he didn’t know how.
He loved LA. I’m sure he loved the creative, individualistic energy here. Years ago, not thinking about healing my lineage, I moved here.
And I was the one, more than anyone in the family, who chose to live that free-spirited creative life. It might have looked great on the outside, but honestly, my 20’s weren’t always easy.
It took me a long time to learn how to stop feeling everyone’s stuff as my own. It was much easier after a decade or so of focused spiritual studies had strengthened me to the point where I could start a business and have a relationship.
Even after that, I still became the “family healer” in my first marriage. His sister, who had been “it”, died a month after we were married when her heart transplant failed to take. As the years went on, I’d sometimes get their Mom’s physical symptoms. Through these experiences, I’ve become fascinated with the connections between energy and our bodies, and I’ve learned a lot about holistic health.
Once, a business coach had me reflect on my greatest success story. She said it didn’t need to be a client, just a time where I used my super powers and it changed someone’s life in a powerful way.
My greatest success was my Dad. Into my 20’s, he would still as get drunk and obnoxious as he did when I was young. While I didn’t live with him, we still visited and spoke with one another, and the energy was tough.
I spent most of my year in “psychic school” clearing my Dad’s energy out of my space. It was huge for me in finding my way in life, but looking back it was even huger for him.
Around the end of that year, he called me when he was drunk. I set a boundary and told him I wouldn’t be able to talk with him in that state. And I hung up.
Weeks later, my Mom called to tell me he had quit drinking cold turkey. I am sure the combination of setting that boundary plus a year of releasing his energy was a major factor.
As we come upon the holidays, I invite you to look at where you heal your family in healthy or unhealthy ways, consciously or unconsciously. Since I did it unconsciously for so long and have worked with many clients in similar positions, I can see the pros and cons of doing so.
I hope this was helpful! As always, feel free to leave a comment below, and reach out if you’d like to explore your family “stuff” more in depth. Happy Thanksgiving!
I cry and unexpected money shows up. I scream and my relationship has a breakthrough. I sing and dance and feel healthier.
I show my “imperfect” feelings and my daughter learns to trust me more. Even better, she learns to feel safe with her own feelings.
It’s the opposite of what most of us are taught. Especially when we’re stressed, wondering “Is my relationship/ money/ health/ ______ going to be ok?,” our knee-jerk reaction is to clamp down. Hold on for dear life.
In those moments, we feel “I can’t afford to mess up here.” We try harder, we pretend more, and we push and tense up because it takes energy to shove our feelings down.
And I can tell you after decades of observing myself and the people around me doing it, it doesn’t even work. Flat out. It doesn’t work.
And of course we have to consider where and when and how to express our feelings. It’s not appropriate to scream in the middle of a restaurant, it’s not helpful to call someone names or let emotions take over our lives completely.
There’s an art to feeling them fully and honoring others and the rest of our lives. It’s worth mastering, and contrary to our fears, it makes us more mature and successful in life, not less.
By feeling more, we can live more fully. Our creativity turns on. We allow more good into our lives. And we cannot avoid the “bad” and still expect the good to come.
I interviewed a couple of tantra experts for the Empowered Living Podcast, and both talked about this. For example, Michaela Boehm shared that we can only feel as much orgasmic pleasure as we can feel anger. And that goes for all our emotions– by feeling the “negative” ones we allow more of the “positive” ones.
People think tantra is all about sex, but it’s not. That’s a great way to get people’s attention and yet tantra is a much bigger concept.
Loosely translated, it means “weaving” and “expansion”, and refers to embracing both body and spirit, that our spirituality can include the body and everything “worldly”. In a sense, it’s an “advanced” concept, because it’s easier to meditate in a cave than it is to find bliss in the midst of work, marriage, children and modern life. These days, it’s rare to find a cave or set aside such time, and so tantra is becoming popular.
Ever since I was a teenager, it’s pissed me off when people lived with their volumes “turned down”. It’s challenged me when someone’s words or actions didn’t match their energy. I could feel these things, and I felt confused and sad. Sad, because I knew more was possible. I didn’t know there were teachings about this and I certainly didn’t have it modeled to me.
In big and little ways, we all “hold back” at times. For example, many of us overstep our own boundaries because we’re afraid to disappoint someone. Or, we say we’re “good” when we’re furious and “fine” when we’re bursting with joy. We rush by flowers that smell sweeter than the best perfume.
I felt alone with my sensitivity as a kid, but now I realize how sensitive we all are. Some of us can see it more clearly than others, perhaps, but everyone gets confused when people’s actions don’t match their words!
I see how many relationship problems are caused by someone not speaking their truth (or even knowing what they really feel), acting out and then triggering the other. It’s much, much harder to unravel these things if we aren’t willing to look at what’s really going on.
I see people getting stuck in their health and money and career challenges when they aren’t willing to feel. Simply put, if one kind of energy can’t flow, then no energy can flow.
And emotional energy is incredibly powerful. Tapping into it is the key to manifesting anything.
If you’re not sure how to access your feelings, or what to do with them when you do, hit me up for a reading and let’s take a look together! This Sunday, 10/16, you can get a *free* mini-reading in the Empowered Living Psychic Lounge. Tantra is one of our themes and I’ll take these questions first!
Thanks for reading, and as always, feel free to post your comments and questions below.